A Carnival band included a “Rose” - a female pleasure device - inside a swag bag for masqueraders.
Within hours, social media erupted.
🗣️ Church groups were upset.
🗣️ Parents were concerned.
🗣️ Sponsors were uneasy.
🗣️ Commentators were divided.
And immediately the public discussion turned into:
“Has Carnival gone too far?”
But that question actually misses the "real issue".
Because the controversy wasn’t caused by the object.
It was caused by context.
The Mindset Shift That Unlocks Scaling
Scaling doesn’t begin with a website, a team, or a marketing plan.
It starts with identity.
Most Black and Caribbean women were raised to:
Be grateful for what we have
Avoid outshining others
Carry more than we should
Believe that ambition is dangerous or selfish.
But here’s the thing:
Your business cannot outgrow the version of you that keeps shrinking to make others comfortable.